Leadership Spotlight: Anna M. Romanskaya Family Law News Monthly, Editor, Family Law Executive Committee (FLEXCOM)

By Leslie Abrigo
CFLS, FLEXCOMM Chair

In the San Diego legal community, Anna M. Romanskaya is known not only for her work as a family law attorney, but for the way she shows up as a leader. A Partner at Stark & D’Ambrosio, LLP, Anna manages the firm’s Family Law Division and represents clients in all aspects of family law, including complex and high-conflict matters. With nearly two decades of practice, she brings a steady, thoughtful presence to her work, one that clients trust and colleagues respect.

Anna’s leadership extends to the national stage, where she has served as Chair of the American Bar Association Young Lawyers Division and now sits on the ABA Board of Governors, representing California. In these roles, Anna has helped shape conversations that impact the profession as a whole, always bringing a grounded and practical perspective informed by her day-to-day work as a family law practitioner.

Within FLEXCOM, Anna has been a dedicated member for the past five years. Her continued involvement, including her role as Editor of Family Law News Monthly, reflects a deep commitment to connection and contribution. 

For Anna, FLEXCOM is more than service; it is an opportunity to collaborate with others, support the development of the Section, and ensure that a range of practitioner voices are heard across the state.

What makes Anna’s leadership especially meaningful is its accessibility. She does not lead from a distance. She leads by showing up, listening, and engaging. She encourages others to do the same, particularly those who may be hesitant to step forward. In her view, joining FLEXCOM or a standing committee is not about having all the answers. It is about being willing to participate, grow, and contribute. Anna encourages members to consider applying for FLEXCOM leadership. She emphasizes that leadership within the Section is built over time through involvement, curiosity, and a willingness to take that next step. Those who step forward—whether by joining a committee or seeking a leadership role help shape not only their own professional growth, but the future direction of family law in California.

In Anna’s approach, there is a quiet consistency and understanding that real impact is built over time through steady effort and genuine connection. It is that quality that has made her such a respected presence within FLEXCOM and beyond.